My room has a very lovely view being on the 3rd floor of the female’s hostel with no obstruction to my viewing pleasure of people entering,leaving and standing outside the hostel,thanks to Student’s Affairs. The room avails me the opportunity of seeing Iya Bunmi’s stand and West’s C&C stand on my left,Block 1 which is opposite,I can see people on the corridor,I could identify them as well(I should be a detective,hehehe),New Great Hall,I sure can see a lot more!
Everyday I see love birds mostly after the 9pm permitted visiting hours to the female hostel(although some lovers find it difficult to abide by this rule…their love must be irresistible!) staying outside my window,some standing,some sitting on parked cars,others sitting inside their boo’s car. I hear giggles,laughters,screams,shouts,sometimes I could hear what they’re saying,other times whispers and sometimes silence,looking out of my window,both boos might be entangled in eachother’s embrace,others holding hands,some others are usually carried away and probably don’t care about the moral consequences of their action,forgetting we’re black not white.
These views are usually very romantic and if you were single,it is the time you hug your teddy bear or bears and give yourself hope that soon your Prince Charming shall arrive,perhaps,he missed his way and is too adamant to ask!
The sad part of these scenes and the “He is just perfect for me”,“He is everything I ever wanted”,“I’ve never loved anyone like this in my life,He must be The One” is that in few weeks or months,gist will start flying that they’ve broken up, making people who really liked them together sad!
Trust Medilag students, gist spreads faster than wildfire!
I have questions for you today, please endeavour to answer the ones you can,thank you!
As girls,there are several rules you follow for a guy to maybe not take you for granted or treat you special,some refer to it as standard.
-If you know a guy likes you,you act like you don’t like or care about him and it’s all lies,suffering and smiling girls! Why?
-Act unavailable even if you are very jobless because the other person might get turned off or you trying to prove,that you’re a busy woman who has a lot on her mind and he’s not on your mind?
-Ignore calls and don’t return calls but then you really want to hear his voice that makes you blush? 😉
-Don’t reply chats immediately. Why?
-Act neutral like you don’t send the poor dude?
This plus the ones in “Think Like A Man” and the others we know.
Please must life be this difficult because you like someone,can’t guys and girls be straight forward,no games,no lies and both parties know what they want from eachother or take advantage of themselves?
Can we ever let this numerous rules go and be true to one another?
This rules truly work wonders but can’t you just be yourself and let the person accept you for who you are?
I think you just get to that stage when you’re tired of the rules or game even if they’ve always worked for you!